Understanding Men during Arguments

Arguments and misunderstandings, these are common issues in any relationships. No relationship is perfect, every now and then there are bouts of misunderstandings that arises, a couple of jealous remarks and heated conversations once in a while. This is understandable. This is common trait in every relationship, no matter how educated couples are, how civil, and how much they want to settle things amicable. Dispute and misunderstanding happens in every relationship and that is perfectly normal, once in a while. 

However, men and women are complex people with differences. Both are unique species with special ways of dealing things, especially arguments.

Women are the type to settle arguments the moment it arises. When you’re arguing about something you need to clear things right there and then. That is how women. They want to settle things as soon as possible and clear the air with whatever animosity or indifference there is between the couple.

However, the same is not true to men.

They want to let time pass, let things cool before tackling the subject again and talk about the issue. As much as possible they want to avoid the nagging, the shouting that will get both of you nowhere. When two people are engaged in a intense argument, chances are the two aren’t listening to each other and would end up in a much complicated situation. Thus, men opt to retreat while women chose to engage further with the issue.

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Why Relationships Fail To Actually Work Out

Why wouldn't it happen? When people are quite the obsessive type nowadays. They obsess on just about anything. They can't balance things, and focus on much important issues.


In a relationship, the couples love could either be too much or too less. The other person love him/her than the other one. Or the other person doesn't care about love but care bout sex, while the other was thinking of a fairy tale romance and not getting it.


It is most important to find out just what kind of a relationship you need, and you currently have. By the way, not most people take time to sit and think about their relationships rationally. They usually have this tinsy bitsy hallucinations in between. Like just how Cinderella-ish their love story will be in the distant future. How about try living today work on the relationship realistically for a better future.


If you're relationship keeps ending in an epic fail then there must be either something wrong with you and your love or, you're not paying attention to your relationship enough. Either you're obsessing 24/7 and starting to nag like a wife, or you're just having a passive boring relationship of 'you do your stuff I do mine' relationship type.


Not every people notice the changes in their relationship every month. Like if its growing, its stagnant or there is progress. A stuck up relationship would end up in epic fail. It must grow and couples need to explore on how they can grow together, make the relationship even better and avoid conflicts before it even burns a whole Forrest.


All it needs is a little of sensitivity, ears and emotional intelligence to work a relationship out.