There is no exact formula unto how one person will successfully find his/her Mr/Ms Right. However, I noticed that most successful relationships involve one dominant and submissive partner. Either the guy is the submissive peace-maker who keeps things cool; apologize despite not being the one at fault and making a relationship work or the dominant party in the relationship. If you realize that you’re a dominant type, you need one who compliments you by finding that one particular person who contains your dominant manner.
That one person who can bring out the best in you and balance you, helps you become a person who knows that a relationship is a give and take state of affairs. This is why, if there is one particular person you are interested in, it is important that you get to know him better and better each time by starting off as friends. Have you noticed how your friends just let their guards down; show their real personality, attitude with no pretense? Even if that particular “friend” of yours is faking things, tiny bits of information will be able to tell of what kind of person he/she is. You can’t pretend 24/7, but there will be a time a person’s true personality will show, and thus in this phase you grasp whether or not you will be able to accept his flaws, love his flaws and be in a relationship with this guy for a long, long time.
If you’re the submissive type, an introvert who is on most part is a giving person, kind and understanding with great sense of patience, you need one who will be able to bring the sociable nature in you, out in public. You need one who doesn’t stay in their grey zones or comfort zones, but one who try to take risks (with sufficient pre-cautions of course).
In any relationship it is important to find that right person who compliments you. His weakness is your strength; her strength compliments the ones you’re lacking.
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