I'm Stuck. No Matter What I Do I Can't Move On.

You're stuck because you're in denial. Deep within you you're hoping that he/she'll realize that it was a mistake breaking up with you and you're waiting for the day he wakes up. I wonder when YOU will wake up. There is around 7Billion people in the world and you're waiting on someone who never asked you to wait or waiting for someone to wake up and come back to you but are you sure he's not wide awake already? There can only be two possibilities with this assumption. Either he will come back or you're going to wait and hurt forever. So what if the first possibility happens? No chance of re-uniting? You'll still wait? Realize that every beginning has an end. Either it ends in epic fail or it ends with you two tying the knot and exchanging vows. However the chance is slim. You'll need to go through all kinds of obstacles before you're able to get pass bf/gf relationship and get married, after marriage there is another set of obstacles to face.


Then, how can you move on? STOP WAITING. Accept the fact that he's far far away with some fairy tale princess which was never you and that he's gonna make a happy ever after with her and not you. You'll need to move on. You lived for a decade or two without him before so, whats the difference now that you're without him/her? 

Waking Up Another Day Half Empty

After a break-up, you experience a jet lag. You feel dizzy remembering just how things you cared about for the last few months ended just like a hurricane.


The person you spent your time thinking about every second of the day suddenly has decided he doesn't love you no more and he can't continue being in a relationship he is not happy anymore, the usual line. Now, people doesn't even have the guts to tell you "we're through" vis-a-vis.


Well, thanks to the ever going forward tech gadgets we have nowadays. It is difficult for the new generation these days to actually get off their mobile phones or PC just to tell someone that they're not happy anymore and tell it like a man, face to face. What can you expect even courtship these days take only hours and so relationship seems to be shaky? They spend more time text-ing each other, than, being with one another. Presence is more satisfying that the sweet "I love you's" your lovie-dovie sends to your mobile phone daily. What d'you knows he might be mass messaging it to a group of his girlfriends? Haha.


The break-up aftermath is somehow earth shattering than the break-up scene itself. Only by that time you actually realized that you have lost something you truly care about... someone really special. No one to send you flowers on your birthday, no special dinner date during Valentines and Xmas day, no more monthly anniversary, and no more special person whom you can call your own.


Well, that sure sucks...but you need to move on. He is probably happy somewhere while you're sulking in bed crying your tear ducts dry. In my next post I'll tackled best methods to move on from a bad break-up. =)
And they really work.