Why Relationships Fail To Actually Work Out

Why wouldn't it happen? When people are quite the obsessive type nowadays. They obsess on just about anything. They can't balance things, and focus on much important issues.


In a relationship, the couples love could either be too much or too less. The other person love him/her than the other one. Or the other person doesn't care about love but care bout sex, while the other was thinking of a fairy tale romance and not getting it.


It is most important to find out just what kind of a relationship you need, and you currently have. By the way, not most people take time to sit and think about their relationships rationally. They usually have this tinsy bitsy hallucinations in between. Like just how Cinderella-ish their love story will be in the distant future. How about try living today work on the relationship realistically for a better future.


If you're relationship keeps ending in an epic fail then there must be either something wrong with you and your love or, you're not paying attention to your relationship enough. Either you're obsessing 24/7 and starting to nag like a wife, or you're just having a passive boring relationship of 'you do your stuff I do mine' relationship type.


Not every people notice the changes in their relationship every month. Like if its growing, its stagnant or there is progress. A stuck up relationship would end up in epic fail. It must grow and couples need to explore on how they can grow together, make the relationship even better and avoid conflicts before it even burns a whole Forrest.


All it needs is a little of sensitivity, ears and emotional intelligence to work a relationship out.

I don't understand you or you're not listening?

In arguments we usually hear this lines being used. Lines like "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME" despite you explaining the whole damn thing in details. But is this really the issue? That the other party can't understand your sentiments, refuse to understand.. or is it because they're just not listening well?


Most probably than not, it is the latter.


Today people are used to listening only to themselves.

Women Independence and Abortion

What is the effect of women independence in our modern day? Due to this independence, women can freely choose or opt to murder their own child whenever she deems necessary. Its her body, her decision. Especially if the father of the child refuses to take responsibility, the child is flushed down the toilet through the help of abortion pills and other abortion drugs.

That is just awful. If you didn't want this kind of responsibility you should pledge abstinence. Reality check: there is no such thing as safe-sex cause if there is, there is no need for abortion. Safe-sex is all in your head. :x Its the wrong assumption that caused teenagers to disregard chasteness and impregnate most teeners and committed abortion along the way.

According to recent studies, teenagers nowadays commit suicide every minute. @_@ I say; give your child a chance to live and its up to him/her if she decides to take her own life away and waste it. You don't need to stain yourself with the blood of an innocent child. Whom in the first place came to existence because you did the "act" with some irresponsible stranger.

Its not fair that the child has to pay for your mistakes. If you're not ready for the responsibility at your age, I'm sure the child is not willing to die at such stage. I don't think "that" living thing inside of you, your very own flesh and blood is yet ready to be flushed down the toilet without even feeling the warmth of the sun or witnessing a beautiful sunrise or experiencing the first gulp of polluted air :)

Simple Pregnancy Math for every girl out there:

No Sex = No Pregnancy

Sex = Pregnancy

So don't be surprised if you find yourself pregnant. It is no surprise, especially if you indulge yourself on premarital activities. :3




(Pro-Life)

Marriage Reality: The Whats "NOT" before Marriage

Dear Couples, Engaged and soon to be married, or just got married... Please do understand that weddings or tying the knot with your special beloved one is not the last chapter and page of your life's book. It is actually the first page and chapter of a new beginning. Although we can view marriage as the last page of your single life, it is the beginning of a new life with your other half.

If you have spent the last 20 years of your unmarried life overcoming obstacles from childhood to adulthood. Struggling to pass each year's painstaking school exams and overcome school related stress, your marital life is similar to that as well.

You will be facing different type of obstacles along your married life, in where everyday, weeks, months and years of it is spent, you will need to overcome and pass major marital tests which is not only for yourself but for your other half and future kids.

Whether we like it or not, as a married person (i'm single. never married. LOL) especially on the women's part, being a mother (provide child care) and a wife is an exhausting career and responsibility that you need to perform inside and outside marriage.

You don't have any other option. If you don't want this type of commitment and responsibility, please take time to re-think your decision. You're probably making the wrong decision.

Introduction Post

Hello, Deztiny here. I am not new to blogging.

This is my 2nd personal blog with blogspot. My first one is a mix of personal journal and earning opportunities I found online.

Friends usually ask me for advice about a lot of things. Mostly about their relationship and marriage. And so I have decided to create this blog. I'm no guru, but so far they think I'm the best person to approach to when it comes to this matters.

If you have questions or would like for advice you can leave your e-mail in my comment area. 

Would love to help everyone else.

Well, hope you'll enjoy my website.

Hope ya stick around... :3